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How Video Games Make You Hate Yourself
#motivation #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment
A lot of, a big problems that people have nowadays is that they can't stand moments of no stimulation in their life so they're constantly lurking, looking for entertainment, video games.
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Never Feel Ashamed for Wanting Power
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#masculinty #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment Get my E-book payhip.com/b/u367i Fear creates its own self-fulfilling dynamic- as people give into it, they lose energy and momentum. Their lack of confidence translates into inaction that lowers confidence levels even further, on and on.”
The Loneliness of Excellence
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#masculinty #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment Get my new book payhip.com/b/u367i “Excellence is lonely. Your friends won’t get it, but your allies will.” Not everyone around you understands the price of success and that success entails sacrifice. In truth, sacrifice is not an option but a mandatory requirement for success. Sacrifice may come in the form of physical or mental. Don't be afraid be...
Don't Wish For an Easier Life, Wish For a Stronger Back
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#masculinty #selfimprovement #mentalhealth Get my new book payhip.com/b/u367i “What separates those who go under and those who rise above adversity is the strength of their will and their hunger for power. The ultimate power in life is to be completely self-reliant”
How Your Kindness Will Disappoint You in The Real World
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#masculinity #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment "Your kindness is charming, but it will soon turn monotonous. Instead of overwhelming those, who took your generosity for granted, with even more niceness, try inflicting some pain. Withdraw your attention, affection & favors. Make them feel guilty and insecure"
Why You Should Never Ignore Red Flags in Relationships🚩
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#selfimprovement #toxicrelationships #relationship "Its not that we aren't aware of red flags, we just refuse to believe that they exist within someone that we identify as our perfect match" thumbnail artwork by: Irina Almeida www.artstation.com/irinaalmeida9
Don't Waste It...Don't Waste Your Life
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#masculinty #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment “Death smiles at us all; all we can do is smile back.” ― Marcus Aurelius
How Stoicism Can Make You a Bad Man
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#masculinity #stoicism #selfimprovement The often unseen/undiscussed side of utilizing stoicism while still fresh from a personal tragedy, is that we either may not know or try to deny that we are genuinely suffering inside, and we try to mask them with trying to completely shut down our emotions to prevent them from being visible to everyone. But because the state of our suffering is still so ...
Stop Telling Everybody What You Are Doing in Your Life
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#selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #mentalhealth “It never ceases to amaze me: we all love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion than our own.” - Marcus Aurelius
Holding On to Mistakes You Can't Fix
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#selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #stoicism “It can be valuable to analyze what went wrong in the past, but it is far more important to develop the capacity to think in the moment. In that way you will make far fewer mistakes to analyze.” - Robert Greene
Your Anger is The Most Useful Tool For Motivation
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#masculinity #selfimprovement #motivation “Learn to question yourself: Why this anger or resentment? Where does this incessant need for attention come from? Under such scrutiny, your emotions will lose their hold on you. You will begin to think for yourself instead of reacting to what others give you.” - Robert Greene
Life is Harder When You're A Broken Man
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#masculinity #selfdevelopment #selfimprovement "You’re not angry at the world because of all the unfortunate & dire things that you’ve encountered & experienced, you’re angry because you hate yourself for being blind, careless, misguided & stupid for not realizing the harsh reality sooner and educate yourself as much as possible about them before you experience them first hand. Or at least, aff...
How to Know If You're Lying to Yourself
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#selfdevelopment #selfimprovement #masculinity “Above all, don’t lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to such a pass that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, or around him, and so loses all respect for himself and for others. And having no respect he ceases to love, and in order to occupy and distract himself without love he gives way to passions...
The Rationality of Manifestation | You Don't Attract What You Want, You Move Yourself Closer to Them
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#motivation #selfdevelopment #selfimprovement Link to Marco's full interview: ua-cam.com/video/EbR03moL2qE/v-deo.html "Any success that we have in life inevitably depends on some good luck, timings, the contributions of others, the teachers who helped us along the way, the whims of the public in need of something new. Our tendency is to forget all of this and imagine that any success stems from...
Losing A Long Term Friend
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#selfdevelopment #selfimprovement #relationship We must remember that we have no control over the actions of others. Their actions reflect their character, not ours. Remember that their actions are driven by their own judgments and decisions, and while these may cause us pain, they do not define us. We cannot control how others behave or what they think of us, but we can control how we respond ...
Why it is Near Impossible to Change Someone
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Why it is Near Impossible to Change Someone
Dealing With Uncertainty of The Future
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Dealing With Uncertainty of The Future
The Beauty of Being a Stubborn Person
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The Beauty of Being a Stubborn Person
How to Have Self-Belief, When You Never Have Any
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How to Have Self-Belief, When You Never Have Any
Never Run Away From Your Problems
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Never Run Away From Your Problems
The Untold Truth About Overthinking
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The Untold Truth About Overthinking
We All Make Mistakes (Don't be Extremely Hard on Yourself)
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We All Make Mistakes (Don't be Extremely Hard on Yourself)
Stop Feeling Sorry for Being Who You Are
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Stop Feeling Sorry for Being Who You Are
How You Become Romantically Obsessed
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How You Become Romantically Obsessed
What Being Rejected Says About You
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What Being Rejected Says About You
Using Personal Tragedy to Create Unstoppable Drive
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Using Personal Tragedy to Create Unstoppable Drive
Everyone Who is Struggling Secretly Needs This
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Everyone Who is Struggling Secretly Needs This
What Everyone Will Hate Seeing You Become
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What Everyone Will Hate Seeing You Become
Is Having High Integrity Overrated & Foolish?
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Is Having High Integrity Overrated & Foolish?
A Simple Way to Tolerate Physical Pain & Discomfort
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A Simple Way to Tolerate Physical Pain & Discomfort

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @ireneyuson8
    @ireneyuson8 5 годин тому

    Thank you so much for teaching me to understand my situation...

  • @soulassassn9591
    @soulassassn9591 7 годин тому

    Do one about 40 year old childish women so we know you’re not a government sympathizer driving everything to work just for useless vaaajina to waste all their resources

  • @elecro-bolt1721
    @elecro-bolt1721 11 годин тому

    Being different makes me feel sad isolated angry and alone, I'm always saying to myself why why am I bad I am an !d!ot 😔

  • @bruno-ks2dd
    @bruno-ks2dd 13 годин тому

    i must impr000000000000v. I AM IMPR0000000000VING!!!! I MUST IMPR00000000000VEEE!!!!!

  • @Demiabahku
    @Demiabahku 15 годин тому

    This is so timely. So liberating. So deserving (or undeserving)

  • @Itwasme007
    @Itwasme007 16 годин тому

    Close people to me say I should have more empathy and mercy towards others. Fool me once shamed on you, fool me twice shamed on me. Yeah is true Im emotional unavailable no friends or romantic relationships since years ago. I will forever remember the names of the last woman I gave a chance at love but broked my heart and my last best friend who staved me on back, and broke my trust. I have lost the availability to trust again. GOD DAMM the men that trust in other men.

  • @bridgitbianco5593
    @bridgitbianco5593 День тому

    What about the girls who are into feminine boys

  • @liitledragneel9357
    @liitledragneel9357 День тому

    A warning from my personal experience. I've been using this kind of habit about pain tolerance but it has seriously bad drawbacks if abused or frequently applied. From what I understand, the pain is noticeable and painful but bearable to the point that you can still focus on things that must be done. What's actually happening is a phenomenon of intense focus called the zone or fight or flight response which in this case is fighting for your priorities. So what's the bad thing about it is it costs your mental health, it demands energy and causes high stimulation in your brain. I can't go into details with the scientific method but the point is for me from my personal experience, it's similar to adrenaline rush. Remember to take healthy breaks and properly rest to recover. You'll surely regret the bad effects in the long run, specifically to your brain.

  • @tessract_osu_Official
    @tessract_osu_Official День тому

    So true I will never be matured

  • @thomasandersen2534
    @thomasandersen2534 2 дні тому

    I loved her. I loved her two young sons. She chose to break up with me while she's deployed overseas in Europe. I had enough of the sleepless nights letting my thoughts run wild. Walking Away from it all.

  • @Its-Frosty
    @Its-Frosty 2 дні тому

    See yall on the field brothers 🫡

    • @ICMFX
      @ICMFX День тому

      What u on about bro?

  • @kingsonxd8348
    @kingsonxd8348 2 дні тому

    Good luck being independent in an economy where even a medium wage job can’t upkeep rent and food for yourself. Oh, and I hope you don’t still have that “starting a family fantasy” in your head, we can’t really do that anymore unless both you and your significant other make 6 figures a year, but hey, If you want to raise a family in poverty and starvation, be my guest.

  • @JenniferStephen-ee1po
    @JenniferStephen-ee1po 2 дні тому

    This man sounds like a demigod he describes me in every way shape or form

  • @dmt999
    @dmt999 2 дні тому

    Truly alarming how you all desire ugly violence. Gives one an alarming insight to the workings of the male brain. Its not pretty...

  • @mowglimadness
    @mowglimadness 2 дні тому

    Playing video games means nothing, you are a weak minded person to think that the absence of a father is what makes men weak, a man has to make a decision to be strong and to gather with other strong men and women of good character who will work toward common goals that are fulfilling and useful for the world at large, the use of poor upbringing is an excuse people have to discard, as you are the only one who can shape your life

  • @HaakonGraf
    @HaakonGraf 2 дні тому

    A work colleague did this: just walked away without saying bye .. but for no rational reason. My take : no common courtesy. Or manipulative.

  • @bc6352
    @bc6352 2 дні тому

    Time can tear down a building or destroy a woman's face Hours are like diamonds, don't let them waste Time waits for no one, no favours has he Time waits for no one, and he won't wait for me Time Waits for No One - Rolling Stones 1974

  • @Leshy_
    @Leshy_ 2 дні тому

    Im 23 y/o, woman and honestly low in the dumps rn. My boss and coworkers keep telling me how useless i am. :( its sad. Its frustrating. Denied promotions. Stagnant growth.

  • @n0m4d_01
    @n0m4d_01 2 дні тому

    Damn i was just scrolling in UA-cam than just from nothing i got a reality check. Thank you,this video made me think a lot.

  • @raffman4266
    @raffman4266 2 дні тому

    Your approach of unforgiveness is very vindictive and vengeful

  • @GBlonjohn
    @GBlonjohn 2 дні тому

    Excellent video. Hard truths for anyone willing to listen.

  • @Justsomeguy17
    @Justsomeguy17 2 дні тому

    Very good and useful video!

  • @carlurbananimals
    @carlurbananimals 2 дні тому

    You will make a video of man child but the real prpblems you don't care about

  • @VTrucker777
    @VTrucker777 2 дні тому

    Heavy favouritism All i have was my brother's stuff Like communist I am a man child cause i just gave up Your own family stabbed your back How can trust other?

    • @VTrucker777
      @VTrucker777 2 дні тому

      Even when what my brother did with my social media Made the whole school see me as a weirdo pervert They just said he just kid Don't make small matter big They never know how big and deep the matter was

  • @johnsonoutdoors8117
    @johnsonoutdoors8117 2 дні тому

    As someone who is just out of high school, I feel I relate to this a bit. I have never had a super active social life, but I have always pushed myself. Covid was strange for me because I could never get anything to work for school. Definitely the hardest few years of I've had. Seems strange to think that but it's true. Now I'm off to do what I've always wanted to do, and maybe more than I thought was going to be possible. Still pushing myself and struggling with different things, but just have to keep pushing. My future is unknown even to me in under a year I could end up anywhere around the world fighting or helping people.

  • @konstantinrebrov675
    @konstantinrebrov675 3 дні тому

    Instead of video games I am into science and technology. I just like studying and learning, and making my own projects. Not for anyone's benefit, not for making money, not for making the world a better place, just for my own thrill and enjoyment of discovery and accumulation of knowledge. So once you get into it, studying is a good addiction. It is actually a form of self-improvement.

  • @user-ud5eo4cd8x
    @user-ud5eo4cd8x 3 дні тому

    I don't have an attractive sharp jawline instead I have a baby face although some nice beard. But I'm fat and I'm constantly being troubled in life with health problems, arguements. I feel if I tell about any of these to anybody then I'll be tagged as the most unluckiest one and people will start suggesting me unsolicited remedies for my miseries. As of now I'm writing this, I'm feeling just too alone...

  • @xDIAMONDDOGx579
    @xDIAMONDDOGx579 3 дні тому

    Meh, you're as young as you feel. And whats your solution acting like an old boring piece of s***, f outta here. Some people are born young and other born old and if that goes over your head, we're done here.

  • @mrnolastname3953
    @mrnolastname3953 3 дні тому

    I'm a life long video game addict and I'd like to say you described my current life situation perfectly

  • @user-fe8fr1dw5w
    @user-fe8fr1dw5w 3 дні тому

    Is this rational? Or emotive.

  • @mustafahasan4137
    @mustafahasan4137 3 дні тому

    Regardless you seek power or not, without it, you’re nothing to the people and even to the loved ones thus we should seek for it by hook or by crook.

  • @SodaAvenue
    @SodaAvenue 3 дні тому

    any adult children binge eaters in the mix here with learned helplessness or sort of conditioned by parents unconscious phrases leading to weak failure to launch mindset? what did you guys do & watch on yt? or any ytubers to recommend that is on such recovery journey? (noticed tough talk doesnt work, sort of backfires) can anyone recommend any yt channels of people of such and what they did in recovery process as inspirational stories? any new age spiritual or non spiritual yt therapist that talks about (creative) ways on how to face this? tyvm in advance!

  • @jacobavners2394
    @jacobavners2394 3 дні тому

    I am doing my best to be kind to everyone and I wouldn't say I expect any 'reward' or 'reciprocation' from anyone. I do have an expectation that I will not be treated *badly* or negatively by others, but even being treated 'completely neutrally' is fine by me

  • @stunnaboijay-xz1gs
    @stunnaboijay-xz1gs 3 дні тому

    As long as you have balance and take care of your priorities, then it’s not a problem And you can still enjoy the fun of video games.

  • @HecVris
    @HecVris 3 дні тому

    Just enjoy the video games you play and have a life outside them too. Use them as inspiration, not only as an escape.

  • @6blocky427
    @6blocky427 3 дні тому

    You could only get so much stimulation until you become too tired of video games and begin wanting a better life. Luckly, I deleted my main account of a gaming platform that I put lot of effort, money, and feelings into it. This led me became too disinterested from regaining everything I've spend years on, and honestly, it's so much better. Since I'm addicted to videogames and other things, I want to completely cut out indefinitely in order to fix my life and achieve my goals. Sure, it can be good to play video games for some fun from time to time... only if you don't have any problems within yourself like your insecurities and stuff that causes addictions. Certainly, if I played a game that I put a time limit onto myself, I would go over that limit that would harm myself, so it's better if I just cut it entirely and go for better things like reading or spending time outside that would benefit me more. After all, it's not like I'll die from not playing video games. Hey Mr. Forged, thanks for all the videos you've upload. I'm grateful that there's such videos out there that helps me and my fellows becoming stronger. You're a good man for giving out advice and wisdom for anyone who wishes to watch your videos. Even if it doesn't change someone from watching it, it still leaves an impression that could have a positive snowball effect. Have a good day!

  • @josephang9927
    @josephang9927 3 дні тому

    The powerful elites push for stuff such as peace or tolerance so no one challenges their decaying authority.

  • @littlebilly8747
    @littlebilly8747 3 дні тому

    I used to judge part of my self-worth based on my lack of skill in games my friends were better at. I finally realized the reason I was worse than them was because I didn’t spend six hours a day playing the games. I guess my education was more important to me than Age of Empires

  • @recklessnotion1899
    @recklessnotion1899 3 дні тому

    This used to be me. And you're right, years of putting off the things that truly matter to you such as goals, aspirations, social skills will ultimately hinder you in the long run and you'll realize how behind you are when you get back to the real world. Nowadays I just play new games and once I beat them back to reality until the next one drops, which is few and far between

  • @Martyn_Wolf
    @Martyn_Wolf 3 дні тому

    Yes they can make you hate your choices certainly, not yourself. I was in this situation a while ago, I didn't enjoy gaming anymore (especially modern gaming) sold my PS4 a while ago, now I've got more time to do things. Sure I could not have sold it and did all that stuff anyway, left my PS4 alone..It's knowing yourself and I know I'd choose to get sucked back in so selling it is the easiest option. I brought a PS2 again, older games are more fun and don't need WiFi or accounts. So far I've found my brain has something akin to an automatic switch (or something else has occured in my brain to create this in me) where I have to come off it after 30 mins, I do find that fascinating. I suppose maybe it was more of a novelty/nostalgia thing and now that it's worn off I don't play it much.

  • @ExecutiveAction
    @ExecutiveAction 3 дні тому

    I used to think my greatest strength was my work ethic. But the truth is that my greatest strength is being relentless. I just won't ever give up

  • @ChiefWoad
    @ChiefWoad 3 дні тому

    Thank you sharing, I needed to hear this from another as similar words have echoed in my head these past few years

  • @JonasFilberg
    @JonasFilberg 3 дні тому

    Lmao, no.

  • @alexanderlongfield
    @alexanderlongfield 3 дні тому

    I play hunting simulators because I'm a man and I like to hunt, but in my country it's almost impossible to get a hunting license. My point is that you can't generalize video games and their players. There are an infinite number of genres and reasons why people play video games.

  • @fireboltzer0634
    @fireboltzer0634 3 дні тому

    I'm glad I took a chance with this video, I thought I was gonna "dislike" it. However, I learned something important instead. I love video games and not in an addiction kind of way but, in a inspiration and creation way. It has helped me with a lot of things in my life, like entering the zone. I'm going to try to put down the controller and go outside for a bit.

  • @IAmTheEagleHTM
    @IAmTheEagleHTM 3 дні тому

    Well, video games gave me a career. My channel being about video games, soon streaming, and me becoming a game developer... So yeah, I'd say video games brought me more good than harm in my life.

  • @Hanabi-sh3rb
    @Hanabi-sh3rb 3 дні тому

    My dad said I'm not allowed to be sad I have to be happy I'm not allowed to be depressed. I guess you have to fake it till you make it I remember my dad used to be so cold-hearted he never showed affection to me mom is exactly the same I have to act like I'm a kind person even though I'm not. Some people see my mask of kindness as opportunity but I just made them more suffer part of me want to see them suffer "The child who not embraced by village will burn it down to feel its warmth"

  • @AG-sk5pv
    @AG-sk5pv 3 дні тому

    I'm glad I cut out video games from my life. It was a waste of time. Growing older without accomplishing much. The only sense of accomplishment I would get was from video games. I had to cut cold turkey on it. Now, I work a decent job, go to the gym, and always investing into my self education. Life is the only game worth playing.

  • @pimpsauce
    @pimpsauce 3 дні тому

    THANKS MOM 🙄