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The Loneliness of Excellence
#masculinty #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment
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“Excellence is lonely. Your friends won’t get it, but your allies will.” Not everyone around you understands the price of success and that success entails sacrifice. In truth, sacrifice is not an option but a mandatory requirement for success. Sacrifice may come in the form of physical or mental. Don't be afraid because the things that require us to succeed are the very lonely stages physically and mentally. However, in the end, if you don’t sacrifice for what you want, what you want then ends up being the sacrifice.
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Don't Wish For an Easier Life, Wish For a Stronger Back
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#masculinty #selfimprovement #mentalhealth Get my new book payhip.com/b/u367i “What separates those who go under and those who rise above adversity is the strength of their will and their hunger for power. The ultimate power in life is to be completely self-reliant”
How Your Kindness Will Disappoint You in The Real World
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#masculinity #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment "Your kindness is charming, but it will soon turn monotonous. Instead of overwhelming those, who took your generosity for granted, with even more niceness, try inflicting some pain. Withdraw your attention, affection & favors. Make them feel guilty and insecure"
Never Ignore Red Flags in Relationships🚩
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#selfimprovement #toxicrelationships #relationship "Its not that we aren't aware of red flags, we just refuse to believe that they exist within someone that we identify as our perfect match" thumbnail artwork by: Irina Almeida www.artstation.com/irinaalmeida9
Don't Let The Brief Chaos of Bad Days Rob You From All The Joys in Your Life
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#selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #mentalhealth "To suffer terribly and to know yourself as the cause: that is hell" - Jordan B. Peterson
Don't Waste It...Don't Waste Your Life
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#masculinty #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment “Death smiles at us all; all we can do is smile back.” ― Marcus Aurelius
How Stoicism Can Make You a Bad Man
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#masculinity #stoicism #selfimprovement The often unseen/undiscussed side of utilizing stoicism while still fresh from a personal tragedy, is that we either may not know or try to deny that we are genuinely suffering inside, and we try to mask them with trying to completely shut down our emotions to prevent them from being visible to everyone. But because the state of our suffering is still so ...
Stop Telling Everybody What You Are Doing in Your Life
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#selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #mentalhealth “It never ceases to amaze me: we all love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion than our own.” - Marcus Aurelius
Holding On to Mistakes You Can't Fix
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#selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #stoicism “It can be valuable to analyze what went wrong in the past, but it is far more important to develop the capacity to think in the moment. In that way you will make far fewer mistakes to analyze.” - Robert Greene
Your Anger is The Most Useful Tool For Motivation
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#masculinity #selfimprovement #motivation “Learn to question yourself: Why this anger or resentment? Where does this incessant need for attention come from? Under such scrutiny, your emotions will lose their hold on you. You will begin to think for yourself instead of reacting to what others give you.” - Robert Greene
Life is Harder When You're A Broken Man
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#masculinity #selfdevelopment #selfimprovement "You’re not angry at the world because of all the unfortunate & dire things that you’ve encountered & experienced, you’re angry because you hate yourself for being blind, careless, misguided & stupid for not realizing the harsh reality sooner and educate yourself as much as possible about them before you experience them first hand. Or at least, aff...
How to Know If You're Lying to Yourself
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#selfdevelopment #selfimprovement #masculinity “Above all, don’t lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to such a pass that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, or around him, and so loses all respect for himself and for others. And having no respect he ceases to love, and in order to occupy and distract himself without love he gives way to passions...
The Rationality of Manifestation | You Don't Attract What You Want, You Move Yourself Closer to Them
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#motivation #selfdevelopment #selfimprovement Link to Marco's full interview: ua-cam.com/video/EbR03moL2qE/v-deo.html "Any success that we have in life inevitably depends on some good luck, timings, the contributions of others, the teachers who helped us along the way, the whims of the public in need of something new. Our tendency is to forget all of this and imagine that any success stems from...
Losing A Long Term Friend
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#selfdevelopment #selfimprovement #relationship We must remember that we have no control over the actions of others. Their actions reflect their character, not ours. Remember that their actions are driven by their own judgments and decisions, and while these may cause us pain, they do not define us. We cannot control how others behave or what they think of us, but we can control how we respond ...
Why it is Near Impossible to Change Someone
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#selfdevelopment #selfimprovement #relationship Our desire to change people can be very strong, but it can also become unhealthy and stressful when we try to change people who fundamentally don’t want to change. Of course, we all have expectations about how people should act and the kind of relationships we want to have throughout our lives. If someone insults you and treats you disrespectfully...
Dealing With Uncertainty of The Future
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Dealing With Uncertainty of The Future
The Beauty of Being a Stubborn Person
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The Beauty of Being a Stubborn Person
How to Have Self-Belief, When You Never Have Any
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How to Have Self-Belief, When You Never Have Any
Never Run Away From Your Problems
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Never Run Away From Your Problems
The Untold Truth About Overthinking
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The Untold Truth About Overthinking
We All Make Mistakes (Don't be Extremely Hard on Yourself)
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We All Make Mistakes (Don't be Extremely Hard on Yourself)
Stop Feeling Sorry for Being Who You Are
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Stop Feeling Sorry for Being Who You Are
How You Become Romantically Obsessed
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How You Become Romantically Obsessed
What Being Rejected Says About You
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What Being Rejected Says About You
Using Personal Tragedy to Create Unstoppable Drive
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Using Personal Tragedy to Create Unstoppable Drive
Everyone Who is Struggling Secretly Needs This
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Everyone Who is Struggling Secretly Needs This
What Everyone Will Hate Seeing You Become
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What Everyone Will Hate Seeing You Become
Is Having High Integrity Overrated & Foolish?
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Is Having High Integrity Overrated & Foolish?
A Simple Way to Tolerate Physical Pain & Discomfort
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A Simple Way to Tolerate Physical Pain & Discomfort
What Walking Away Does to The Person You Left Behind
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What Walking Away Does to The Person You Left Behind

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @Juiceboysbox1844
    @Juiceboysbox1844 16 годин тому

    God never forsakes his children, nor does he abandon those who need him the most, It's always best to chase a relationship with God, Jesus Christ of Nazareth 🙏, for man will fail and abandon you, trust in god, remain faithful to god and you shall receive everything that you never even thought you needed, today we all Chase money, fame, greatness and glory for ourselves and have lost sight of the true meaning of this life for we only have one, don't waste your time in places that you feel are not good for you physically and spiritually, become the child of which god has intended for us to be, i pray for all who are in a dark place , better days are to Come.

  • @dominikamimari427
    @dominikamimari427 18 годин тому

    As a 21 yr old boy every be bitching at me for why am i always crying, why i can't do things or listen right, I'm bad at critical thinking well it's not my fault I'm so sensitive and taught more different you know and honestly I don't care what anyone says i like myself for who i am

  • @arrogancekills
    @arrogancekills 19 годин тому

    I hate my parents so much its making me sick

  • @LeoLau-jw7ji
    @LeoLau-jw7ji 20 годин тому

    hehe me parents divorced mom works all day

  • @arthursamazingactivities1319
    @arthursamazingactivities1319 20 годин тому

    He taught me to push though my problems and work hard to achieve what I want and need

  • @winchavda320
    @winchavda320 20 годин тому

    Have you read "Relentless" by TIM Grover?

  • @clickbaitcabaret8208
    @clickbaitcabaret8208 День тому

    Great message man!

  • @BigBrisian
    @BigBrisian День тому

    Amazing again Mr Forged. Really nicely articulated, forever in my playlist. :)

  • @MihanN1S
    @MihanN1S День тому

    Im really young, but i already feel useless. Everybody around me is just better, and Ive tried to learn programming and be a software engineer, but i failed. I tried 3d modeling and learned a lot, but i failed. I even tried volleyball, and i dont have any talent, but i try to be good, and im working hard as shit for past 6 month every fcking day, but my teammates that started training just two or three month ago are better. I even tried streaming, but i was just too young for that and it wasnt interesting for anybody. I tried a Lot of things, and failed in every fucking one, and i feel useless and worthless, and i feel too soft now watching this vídeo and typing this comment. Sorry, i know, noone cares about my thoughts. Thank you for this vídeo, but i still feel like i just exist and like i did nothing in this World. The vídeo helped tho, and ill try to get up tomorrow and try harder if i can. I just dont know my issue and if im good at anything

  • @calvintam2
    @calvintam2 День тому

    So in general, men can handle rejection much better than women because brains wired differently.

  • @ChiefWoad
    @ChiefWoad День тому

    Thank you for sharing, fortune smile on you.

  • @Rocky_Anunnaki
    @Rocky_Anunnaki День тому

    🔥 👑 🔥

  • @gamerslegacy8218
    @gamerslegacy8218 День тому

    I am a 14 year old and fell like I should kill myself

  • @kenrickbautista6141
    @kenrickbautista6141 День тому

    No matter who it is, either it be a family member, friend, acquaintance, partner, coworker or stranger, there's always gonna be someone out there jealous of the other person's success. Whether it be getting good grades, being the best worker, being in good shape or anything else in general. As one would say: "You can be nice to people, you can do good, but try not to be better than them". Unfortunately, it's true. In this world, you can never please anyone.

  • @someguy4071
    @someguy4071 День тому

    The Mamba! My idle!

  • @him11199
    @him11199 День тому

    This video will be part of my morning and night routine from now on. Keep helping us make the beast out of ourselves mate🔥🔥🔥

  • @MrCdorsey
    @MrCdorsey День тому

    ¡PRIMERO!

  • @Its_Ya_Boy_Guzzo
    @Its_Ya_Boy_Guzzo День тому

    He described my life in the beginning of the video and I started crying I battle with those feelings every day this video helped me realize that I'm not alone

  • @jimdaniel4412
    @jimdaniel4412 День тому

    30 years in trades and drywall was main gig...it takes a certain type of person. Am concerned thoygh my generation is getting ready to retire and we are not being replaced at same rate. Quality of life in America is gonna take a big hit

  • @user-ms2dr9yo4d
    @user-ms2dr9yo4d 2 дні тому

    Let's be honest. Bad boy is your natural self that society has pushed out of you. Most men started off Naturally what we now call a bad boy. First off, I ain't no boy. I am not a label like sigma or alpha. Fuck that. Just go back in time two generations and be a man. That's basically it.

  • @Martyn_Wolf
    @Martyn_Wolf 2 дні тому

    People allow themselves to be disrespected, because they disrespect themselves first. Remember it's not "treat others how you want to be treated". It's actually "You teach others how to treat you" especially because of how you treat yourself to yourself!

  • @LearnEcoo
    @LearnEcoo 2 дні тому

    @LearnEcoo plz support me

  • @KingJonathanThe1st
    @KingJonathanThe1st 3 дні тому

    I am a man who loves God and always want the best for everyone. I have no self serving agenda, but in this world, even for those who love God, we still have to play along. I’ve stand for what’s right before, and I was hated. Even in my quiet nature, I was hated. I let my work do the talking and I was loving and kind and still am 😊 but man.. it’s hard to be expressive to your total capacity. My own family who are self proclaimed Christians, all went against me. These are the fake Christians by the way. There are some very good ones out there who deeply care and wants everyone to strive. Truth is, you simply cannot say everything about yourself. Or show too much emotions. So fellas, don’t be Cold or emotionally broken, just create strong boundaries with yourself. Love God first because all good only comes from God. Humans will hurt you by nature. We are mortal beings meant to die. Peace comes from within and only God offers that peace to your spirit. Humans were never designed to Love you so don’t depend on them so much.

  • @Kissthebottle68
    @Kissthebottle68 3 дні тому

    I stay chilly these days and I’m totally at peace with that.

  • @Pavatik
    @Pavatik 3 дні тому

    Its hard

  • @thehypocriticalcynic9182
    @thehypocriticalcynic9182 3 дні тому

    I could hold my own playing around...knocked-out a few guys when it got serious. Tough? No!!! 👇 Something got through, it was a straight right! I knew I could punch...but it aint called winning for a reason. Went home w/the freshest loss in the city.

  • @I_am_Mazki
    @I_am_Mazki 3 дні тому

    Just feel better. dosnt pay the bills Just change your attitude. doesn't get you a job Just get motivated. doesn't help you get relationships I have been unemployed for 6 months now even with a positive attitude it dosn5 mean you will geth the job i have no highschool diploma just being motivated doesn't make you smart enough to pass a grade you failed three times that you studied and work hard to pass I cant pay rent i have no freinds or social life be positive helps but not for people who have nothing to be positive about i have family but im mostly a burden on them (I'm not suicidal but it's hard man)

  • @uranusuranus144
    @uranusuranus144 3 дні тому

    I don't get it. I just want someone to understand me, someone to help me. I never understood why I am the way I am... I always watch these self improvement videos and I end up feeling even shittier about myself after. I've been struggling so hard with depression and I've been considering suicide more than ever. I don't understand, why am I not like other men??? Why? Ever since I was a kid, I was always different. My father was an asshole and for the little time he was there, he never did anything for me. Maybe that's a reason? But... That can't be right. There are so many other fatherless boys that aren't like me. I don't understand. Why do I not feel motivation and a burning desire to get better? Why am I a coward? Why do I hate any sort of physical activity?? The very few times I tried to get off my ass and workout, I felt like absolute shit. Just the constant thought of "Other guys love the pump and the adrenaline rush of working out, so why don't I? Why am I not like other men?" I'm the biggest fucking coward to exist and I just don't understand why. Why do I not feel rage? Why do I cry myself to sleep? I just can't fucking take it, I wish I was never born. Other guys don't have problems with fighting, infact, some guys actually enjoy fighting. I tried to get into fighting... and pussied out. I just dont understand. I don't have the motivation, the desire, the passion, the craving, just nothing. Why am I not like other men???? Every fucking time I try to better myself, I come crashing down because I can't ignore those thoughts nor will they go away. Why am I not masculine? The only thing I feel is dread, loneliness, sadness but most importantly jealousy. I am so jealous that I am not like other men. I am so jealous that I didn't grow up like other men. I hate myself more than anything, I feel like the biggest piece of dogshit to ever walk on this earth. Everytime I see other teenage boys, they are tall, handsome, have a good physique.. I have none of those things. Infact, I feel so ashamed and hate myself so much that everytime I pass by another guy, I just look down at the ground in shame to avoid eye contact because I don't feel as if I even deserve to be the same species. I feel as if I only deserve to be spit on and kicked like the piece of shit I am

  • @user-rn6pk4dz4f
    @user-rn6pk4dz4f 3 дні тому

    Videos like this are why I choose to go to church versus having a relationship. Don't nobody want an aggressive man but another man! Aggressive men try to overpower women. Praise God!

  • @msd5808
    @msd5808 3 дні тому

    Brilliantly written and probably true

  • @slapsmans6900
    @slapsmans6900 3 дні тому

    Bro you are so wordy. I’ve been taking notes on different podcast channels and it’s easy to see how excessive you are. You have good point but obviously have never heard of short and sweet. You over complicate every sentence in an attempt to sound smarter. Like wtf is this: “ When a person close to you envies you profoundly, they will try their best to please you whenever you are physically present in front of them while they are awake in a situation involving you, but will slowly plan conduct for your downfall, whenever they are alone, or within the presence of other people you know, such as spreading false news about you, speaking ill about your character, or partake in any other traits showing their snake qualities.” Like bruh you don’t need to do all that. Chill man. You need to watch Far From Weak. He gets it right in 1/4 of the time you take. Ali Abdaal, Far From Weak, Andrew Tate, Paul Bet David & Alpha M. All are able to articulate their thoughts well and I suggest you take some tips instead of wasting time.

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88 3 дні тому

      Thank you for your input mate 👊

    • @slapsmans6900
      @slapsmans6900 3 дні тому

      @@Forged88 👊🏼 I will work on articulating my thoughts better and keeping my emotions under control. I could have gotten my point across in a more respectful manner. Thank you for continuously sharing your knowledge.

  • @SGHNTZ
    @SGHNTZ 4 дні тому

    I wish I could just die without pain.

    • @user-ml5iw6tf1l
      @user-ml5iw6tf1l 4 дні тому

      Why

    • @SGHNTZ
      @SGHNTZ 8 годин тому

      @@user-ml5iw6tf1l I'm not feeling well. But I don't want to talk about it.

  • @hatix.908
    @hatix.908 5 днів тому

    Bro i fucking hate myself so much

    • @PessimistPirate
      @PessimistPirate 5 днів тому

      Okay. Why?

    • @hatix.908
      @hatix.908 5 днів тому

      @@PessimistPirate I'm so unstable man, my parents deserve someone so much better, my life has been nothing but a shit show. I realise that people are out there that have it worse than me but I've been living a shit show. I don't trust anyone and from these past few days I've even considered ghosting my fem friend whom I feel comfort with. I just don't wanna exist, i just want to disappear into nothingness

    • @hatix.908
      @hatix.908 5 днів тому

      P.s I am NOT suicidal and will never will be

  • @namankitmohanty1634
    @namankitmohanty1634 5 днів тому

    Thank you brother. You saved my life

  • @joutuber4714
    @joutuber4714 5 днів тому

    not true the thing about childood parenting

  • @ptkettlehatsandthegang
    @ptkettlehatsandthegang 5 днів тому

    4:09 I love your channel and your audience, I'm gonna comment on ALL your videos for years until I reach your level of subscribers.

  • @crinawma314
    @crinawma314 5 днів тому

    energy can neither be created nor destroyed. law of agression - Robert Greene

  • @satyam168
    @satyam168 5 днів тому

    Thumbnail is accurate Garou 👍

  • @novanewstories1487
    @novanewstories1487 5 днів тому

    Beautiful Video.Get Advice.

  • @akoko2829
    @akoko2829 5 днів тому

    Thank you I needed this❤

  • @sentasenta8
    @sentasenta8 5 днів тому

    Very cool man🤟🔥

  • @nate2r
    @nate2r 5 днів тому

    Bro you share so much wisdom in your videos that it makes me fear losing it... It's a shame that most people can't accept the truth the way it is and search for tricks that can solve problems they don't want to face head on...

    • @Forged88
      @Forged88 5 днів тому

      Ideals & fear hold them back from acceptinf truth. But once they see it or feel it or hear it they can never put a complete blindfold on it again. Truth most of the times always need to be sugar coated to be plausible, cherry pick what is bearable and discard or change the narratove of what is unbearable

  • @DawnshieId
    @DawnshieId 5 днів тому

    When the strong are good, the weak thrive. 🌱

  • @SS-xm7di
    @SS-xm7di 6 днів тому

    You’re really training people to be shit bags

  • @jamesgarner327
    @jamesgarner327 6 днів тому

    I just saved an ex-girlfriend from a violent new boyfriend, I knew what I wanted, I still went for it, I knew I wouldn't get it....

  • @aboutmybusiness343
    @aboutmybusiness343 6 днів тому

    🫡🫵

  • @aboutmybusiness343
    @aboutmybusiness343 6 днів тому

    🫡🤴🏾⚖️☯️🔺️🔻🔥🔥🔥

  • @aboutmybusiness343
    @aboutmybusiness343 6 днів тому

    🫡🫵🤴🏾⚖️✊️

  • @arildthordal810
    @arildthordal810 6 днів тому

    Ghosting or walking away is self protecting but doing it without giving any reason is abuse and cruel.

  • @koniermcgregoliev299
    @koniermcgregoliev299 6 днів тому

    I loved And cared too much And i paid for it dearly Now? Blackness And coldness in my heart Hatered towards people , especially females

    • @DarknetDude
      @DarknetDude 5 днів тому

      Caring too much. I too, was raised to believe that nonsense. People will only appreciate you if you can benefit them.